Valentine’s Day is something many of us look forward to, but it can also bring a lot of expectations—which nobody needs! Step back from the overly commercialized Valentine’s Day and strive for an intentional, relaxing night together.
Many of us are already experiencing fatigue and overwhelm, so this is a great time to come together and enjoy a loving ritual that leaves you feeling rejuvenated.
Relaxing, Inspiring Date Nights
With Valentine’s Day coming up, there can be a lot of pressure to go on a big or flashy date. Instead of competing with many couples in a crowded, overbooked restaurant on Valentine’s Day, why not enjoy a cozy evening in or near your home? These dates can feel far more meaningful and lead to some unforgettable moments together.
- Enjoy a dip in a hot bath or jacuzzi together (we recommend these incredible Vanilla & Lavender Bath Salts for indoor baths)
- Dinner and a movie night! (Try these amazing popcorn seasonings to add some zest to your evening.)
- Enjoy a peaceful moment on your patio or looking out the window together. Curl up, relax, and savor a mindful cup of tea together.
- Indulge in a special home-cooked meal together (make a favorite meal together or try something new or out of the ordinary, such as fondue or baking fudgy brownies together)
- Have a picnic in your backyard or in a nearby park
- Make chocolate strawberries together - simple and fun! Enjoy some Chocolate Strawberry Herb & Fruit Tea while you wait for the chocolate to set.
- Spend a night in bed together (cozy up with your favorite blanket, a TV show, and a snack tray for the ultimate at-home date)
- Give each other massages! When was the last time you slowed down and gave or received a massage? Set a timer and take turns giving the other a massage with relaxing essential oils. We love this Love Potion Roll-On Oil Blend for sparking passion.
Gift Wellness to Your Partner This Valentine’s Day
So many of us have too much stuff. In fact, many of us are trying to declutter rather than accumulate more.
If you feel like your partner is maxed out on “things” or is trying to make some healthy swaps in their life, these are thoughtful gifts to help them reach their goals.
For the Caffeine Lovers
If your partner is a caffeine fiend, consider these herbal goodies, packed with caffeine and other beneficial ingredients. These are two-in-ones for coffee lovers—get a caffeinated boost while supporting your overall health with other potent ingredients, such as mushrooms and tea.
- Mushroom Coffee Instant Mix: This instant coffee mix delivers a caffeinated punch and lively mushrooms that can enhance focus and memory.* It's packed with Lion’s Mane, Chaga, and Cordyceps, plus cashews for a punchy start to your day.
- Is It Coffee? Is It Tea? Black Tea: If your coffee lover is trying to switch to tea, consider this energizing blend, which combines luxury black tea with cocoa and green coffee beans for a jolt of energy. Many love the nutty, smooth coffee flavor blended with the decadent chocolate.
- Yerba Mate: For a coffee-free option, consider Yerba Mate. Known as the “drink of the gods” in South America, this fabulous tea has as much caffeine as many Arabica coffees but also boasts considerable health benefits, such as supporting heart health, digestion, and weight management.
Whimsical Gifts for Relaxing Date Nights In
Enjoy a special night in with your loved one with these inspiring herbal remedies that will leave you both relaxed and energized for a memorable evening.
- Lovers Bath Blend: A hot bath does wonders for easing tension and bringing you and your partner together. Make it especially romantic with this chocolate strawberry bath blend that’ll leave you feeling relaxed and cozy.
- Chocolate Raspberry Black Tea: Enjoy this decadent tea together after dinner. It’s filled with popular aphrodisiacs, such as raspberry, chocolate, and caffeinated black tea, to provide you with all the energy you need for a lovely night together.
- Lavender Essential Oil: This is a must-have essential oil for any home, as you can use it for encouraging pain relief, relaxation, sleep, and so much more.* This is also a fantastic option for a deep, soothing massage. Add it to your favorite lotion or carrier oil and give your partner a sleep-inducing massage—after all, most of us would love the gift of a good night’s sleep for any occasion. Looking for lavender lotion - try our Simply Lavender Lotion.
- Make Love Tea: Drink this aphrodisiac-rich tea for an unforgettable evening together! This sweet, decadent tea contains honeybush, cacao shells, freeze-dried raspberry, and other ingredients to get your romantic evening going.
- Bergamot & Lavender Body Butter: Whether you’re getting ready for a date night or giving each other massages, this indulgent, creamy body butter is fabulous. It’s sure to leave your skin glowy and hydrated without a sticky film!
Valentine’s Gift Ideas for Romantic Date Nights
Looking for more thoughtful Valentine’s gift ideas? Explore our Valentine’s Gift Guide for curated wellness gifts for couples, self-care, and romantic evenings at home.
Wholesome Meals Together
We’ve all heard the expression, “you are what you eat,” and enjoying a homemade, nourishing meal together is one of the best ways to focus on wellness and celebrate your body without the heaviness of processed foods.
Try these healthy, but delicious foods this Valentine’s Day (many double as aphrodisiacs!)
- Salmon, oysters, or other seafood
- Vivid fruits — enjoy vibrant strawberries, watermelon, and figs
- Healthful nuts, such as pistachios
- Chocolate (dark chocolate is especially decadent and may improve mood)
- Spicy foods (chili peppers can spark energy)
- Honey (sweet and libido-enhancing)
- Saffron (an earthy spice with a bright color known to enhance arousal)
- Ginger (Enjoy our delicious Organic Ginger Root Tea or Organic Ginger Ground spice for a punchy flavor when cooking)
Focus on healthy, but decadent foods that’ll leave you and your partner feeling satiated, happy, but not overly full. Small plates or several small courses are a great way to spread the food out over the night while enjoying a delicious variety.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
Herbalist Natalie
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Natalie Hajdu-Voakes is a consulting herbalist and the owner of The Herb Stop, with over 28 years of hands-on experience in crafting herbal remedies and promoting natural wellness. |
*These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products and statements are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent disease. Consult your healthcare provider before use.